My birthday is my new year. This is when I set my goals, and decide what kind year I want to have going forward. Generally I create a theme based upon what I want, more specifically how I want to feel.
This year, I want to explode! Specifically, I want more pleasure, passion, and power. Not power as in “world domination.” Power as in the ability to see it, believe it, and achieve it within one year, no excuses or exceptions!
As I woman I know I am most open, most receptive in life when we are in the thoroughs of pleasure and passion. When I am giving someone, or some-thing, my all. When I am simply a wide open channel, totally surrendering to the moment. That happens when we are 100% confident in ourselves – not just our skills and ability, but our look, our walk, our talk, our femininity, our ability to deliver. If you feel confident about yours skills, but not your shoes, you do not deliver with as much power or passion at the podium, so to speak — too busy making sure the your shoes are hidden. That’s not to say you don’t do well. But regardless of the results when we don’t feel good, feel confident, the results ultimately don’t matter.
How many women (and men) got it going on and no matter how much you say it, they do not feel it, believe it, live it. Low self-esteem and a lack of confidence are the building blocks of poor relationships and abuse, both giving and receiving, to self and others.
Think about a time when you felt the most free, not worried about anything. It was likely at some point when you were having a good time. When your face was turned to the sun, you were laughing, dancing, playing, giggling, perhaps even climaxing (had to throw that in there it counts!). No one is thinking about their “shoes,” i.e. their education, career path, weight, or makeup, in the midst of unbridled joy, ecstasy, or pleasure. You are open, receptive, all in for all the moment has to offer. Continue Reading